You Do You

It just amazes me to see how our society has changed so drastically over the years in terms of how we judge others or form an opinion about someone.  When I was growing up, I remember how I accepted everyone.  I never disliked someone just because they were different from me or believed in something I did not.  

Today, however, I see this as a bizarre and dangerous thing happening in our relationships, communications, and connections.  I am seeing opinions about individuals because of their various beliefs, whether religion, politics, health choices, raising their children, handling relationships, and everything in between.  Someone is right around the corner, ready to tell you if you are doing it right or wrong.  

We live in a crazy digital world now where we can see and hear people's opinions whether we want to or not.  Some individuals put it all out there to let the world know exactly how they feel, and I am not ok with that.  There are just some things that I think should remain unsaid.  Why would you want the world to know everything you're feeling at every moment?

I believe that we are all entitled to our own opinions and our own choices.  Everyone has the opportunity to educate themselves enough and do extensive research to make the best decisions for themselves in every aspect of their lives.  And, in doing so, there should be no reason to question other people's choices.  

Your love life, political beliefs, health choices, and every aspect of your being should be exclusive to you.  Don't be influenced by others.  It would be best if you always did you, and I will always do me.  Anything other than that does not work. 

Make your choices believe what you will, and live your life to the fullest.  Don't worry about what others think about your decisions and continue to live your best and most beautifulife.  

My affirmation for you this week is:

"I will always stand strong in my beliefs regardless of what others think or feel."



Heather Pak:

Hi Kay! Thank you for writing this!!! I agree our world has changed so much. I never imagined our lives would be like this. The last few months I’ve found it really affecting me. I find myself upset and sad. We are being divided…not a good thing. We must all stick together and not let this divide us. We all must accept what is good for us might not be good for someone else. Thank you Kay. 😊

Heather Pak

May 10, 2022

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